School: Balrath (1) (roll number 9770)

Location:
Balrath, Co. Westmeath
Teacher:
C. Ní Pharthaláin
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The Schools’ Collection, Volume 0719, Page 325

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  1. Match-making was a great go long ago but it is gone out of date now the mane (looking for a wife) used to some the girls house and bring another man along with him and a bottle of whiskey and treat her and her father and mother. The when he would have her in humour he would ask her to marry him. If she said 'yes' the match was made if the father and mother consented. If she said 'no' he would have to try another house.
    A 'wife-hunter' often had to spend the whole night going from house to house as it was considered a terrible disgrace to return without getting a wife after setting out to look for one. There was a match-maker in every district.
    The man used to marry the women with fortunes. The would get about £300. They would get the money rolled up in a nag or an old stocking.
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    Transcribed by a member of our volunteer transcription project.
    Topics
    1. activities
      1. social activities (~7)
        1. rites of passage (~573)
          1. marriage (~4,283)
    Language
    English
    Collector
    Brigid Hand
    Gender
    Female
    Address
    Balrath, Co. Westmeath
    Informant
    John Hand
    Relation
    Parent
    Gender
    Male
    Age
    60
    Occupation
    Farmer
    Address
    Balrath, Co. Westmeath